So yesterday I was power shopping with my Mom during this magical Partner's Card week. (I've gotten some AMAZING stuff and can not WAIT to share!!)
We were at this very nice ladies boutique and were looking at their stuff and I found this FABULOUS grey and beaded Alice + Olivia t-shirt. They had sizes XS, M and a L. And because I've gotten some shirts from A + O before, they run a little big, so I didn't think twice about grabbing the Medium. My usual sales ladies wasn't working that day. So this other sales woman came up to me and literally screamed throughout the store and started walking toward me.
"YOU NEED THE LARGE!! Yeah, across the chest, you totally need the large!"
I said "We'll I'll try on the medium and we'll see how it goes". (She's now standing in front of me) Then she states (while pointing at my boobs) "You see, those need a LARGE". At this point, I'm completely annoyed and I look at my mom. "We'll, I guess I need a freaking large mom. But you know what, I'll try on the medium".
The woman then takes the shirt out of my hands, lays it across my chest and proceeds to stretch the shirt across my chest and TOTALLY is over exaggerating how much this thing will stretch on my body. I'm COMPLETELY pissed, so I just walk away with the shirt. The woman then FOLLOWS ME across the store, still talking about this F&^*ING shirt! I turn around and say, "I'm fine!".
I think she got the hint.

Now I'll admit that I'm a little sensitive about the size of my chest. BUT!!! I also think that there is a way to suggest that a customer might need a larger size without coming off like a huge bitch:
1) You could simply offer to start that customer a fitting room then say something like "You know, this shirt has been running really small, I'll go ahead and put the large in there, just in case"
2) You could just offer a fitting room and just put the large in the room without saying anything.
3) OR you could just freaking not say anything and if the customer thinks the shirt is too small, offer to go get another size for them.
It just PISSED ME OFF!!! (Again, I'm a little sensitive to the subject, but I think she handled it poorly. And you can bet your ass I found a friendly, non abrasive sales woman who was wonderful and very helpful!!)
And for those of you who were wondering, the Medium fit fabulous and was not too tight at all. SO THERE!!

(My new shirt)